Dumb Has Never Been Sexy

We connect the word “sexy” with physical attraction: he has the muscles, she has the legs, he has the lips, and she has the butt. But the word “sexy” becomes useless if the recipient cannot hold a conversation, does not have any sort of intelligence or ambition, or builds themselves up to be a person they are not. Yes, physical attraction matters in a relationship. However, it is the personality that ultimately makes a person attractive.

The best way to get to know someone is through a traditional date; you would pick them up, probably watch a movie, go to dinner, and then hang out and get to know each other…hopefully ending in a nice kiss. It shows effort! But an important aspect of that date is the ability to hold a conversation. It is the best way to truly know who someone is; it is an insight into their personality. And humor is the best way to break the ice. But if you cannot have a decent conversation with an interest, then it is an attraction that is just based on the physical, rather than the person. That is called lust…

Although some may be able to hold a conversation…some just say the dumbest shit! Along with getting to know the person, the conversation also gives you an insight into a person’s intellect. Intelligence and ambition are amazing qualities in a person: educated, a great head on their shoulders, the pursuit to have a better life, and long-term goals. If you must dumb yourself down to have a decent conversation with someone your own age, or someone you find attractive, chances are they are not a person you should be wasting your time on.

But above all qualities in a person, the most attractive is honesty; a person who stays true to who they are. Being different is not a bad thing; I call it unique. More so, an attractive quality is a person who stays true to their word! Our word is ultimately our bond; that we do what we say we are going to do. We must watch what we say, and ultimately say it the way we mean it. If someone builds themselves up, and ends up being a person that they are not, which can be shown through lack of action, they may come off as being very fake and shady.

So, when you find that person that fits the qualities of sexy, there is still one aspect that must be there…romance! They must express their true feelings without hesitance, and show that they care about you through their actions!

We connect the word “sexy” with physical attraction. Yet sexy is humor, whit, and the ability to hold a conversation. Sexy is intelligence and ambition. Sexy is honesty; being yourself, holding on to your word, doing what you say, and saying what you mean. And sexy is romancing. Yes, physical attraction matters in a relationship. However, it is the personality that ultimately makes a person attractive. Being dumb has never been sexy…

Always remember to be the change you wish to see in the world…

Happy Endings,
– PeeJay

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